Friends with ‘benefit’

Unfortunately, we often seem to forget the fact that the internet has been a very successful communication network and that the first internet program made was used to exchange flirty emails between geeky scientists.

I know your skeptical, and for a good reason. The usual excuses are that it doesn't work because people lie on their profiles, singles post fake photos, or it's just for losers who can't get a date in the physical world etc etc. I have heard it all before, but i am here to convince you that it does work and obviously there is a catch, like everything else in life.

I have talked to a large number of gay men and women and the general consensus is that, after a life of living out their gay identities, engaging in same sex activities, entering into gay relationships, and with the onset of old age, when the need for stability and companionship beckons, they would, not as expected, choose to marry someone of their own gender, but would marry a person of the opposite sex, even with the knowledge that they are gay or lesbian. They are not denying or suppressing their gay identities.

Listening to my girlfriends speak may be compared to the same sound as hearing  a broken record or playing a song on repeat mode. It’s like they all share a relationship with the same man.’He doesn’t care about my feelings,he doesn’t love me,he’s always hanging out with his boys instead of spending quality with me,he’s a cheap bastard,he’s not spontaneous’…the list goes on and on;you know the drill.